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If you’re a startup founder, early employee, or anyone holding equity in a growing company, your financial life probably doesn’t follow a traditional path – and your financial plan shouldn’t either.
Most personal finance advice assumes a steady job, predictable income, and a neat path toward retirement. But when your wealth is tied to a startup, whether you're building it or betting on it, it’s anything but predictable. And it’s personal.
Whether you helped start the company or joined early and earned equity, your financial decisions are deeply intertwined with the business. It’s not just numbers – it’s your time, your energy, your future. And often, your family’s future, too.
I sat down recently with Jeff George, a financial advisor in the Wealthramp network who works with startup founders and early employees. Jeff really gets both the financial side and the emotional mindset. As he put it, “When the business is your main source of income, everything else tends to take a backseat” – including saving for retirement or even thinking about your own long-term goals.
That’s why the planning process for startup teams – founders and employees alike – has to be more agile and take into consideration that you’ve also made a huge emotional investment. You don’t just follow a financial checklist. You respond to what’s actually happening – when income stabilizes, when stock options start to vest, or when you hit that moment where you wonder, "Is this finally the exit I've been working toward?"
And even when those moments come, they don’t always bring clarity. A liquidity event can feel like freedom one day and total uncertainty the next. You get the payout, but then comes the big question: “Now what?”
That’s when the urge to ‘react’ can cloud your judgment. Relief, excitement, anxiety, even guilt. Maybe this was your shot. Maybe you’re afraid to lose it. Maybe you’re already thinking about how to make the next one even bigger.
Jeff and I both see this all the time: people get a sudden windfall and feel like they finally have breathing room, but they also feel pressure to make perfect decisions with it. Some rush to upgrade their lifestyle, thinking more payouts are coming. Others sit frozen, afraid to make the wrong move.
This is where planning really matters – not just the spreadsheets, but the emotional safety net. You need a plan that says, “Here’s how we protect this.” One that helps you pay down debt, invest outside the business, set aside money for your family, and feel confident – really confident – that you’re building something lasting.
It’s common for founders and early team members to want to invest almost everything in their startup. After all, they have a front row seat to what’s happening inside the business. They may even feel a little disloyal, like "cheating on the company," when they start investing outside of the business.
But here's the truth: diversifying your personal finances isn’t disloyalty, it’s self-preservation. Your startup may be your passion, but it shouldn’t be your entire financial future.
Building wealth outside of the company gives you more stability, more freedom, and ironically, more staying power to keep building the business you love without being dependent on every next funding round or liquidity event. Diversification isn’t turning your back on the mission – it’s seeking stability to make sure you’re still standing if the mission takes longer than expected.
The truth is, startup life is risky. The stakes are high. And no one tells you how lonely it can feel to make financial decisions when everything feels uncertain. That’s why working with someone who understands your world – not just the numbers, but the pressure behind them – can make all the difference.
My advice? The business might well be your rocket ship, but your financial plan is your parachute.
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